Kai Ceruantes
Thursday, July 21, 2011
What can I do about my huge fear of Aging and getting old. Its ruining my life!?
I'm a very young good looking guy. I never used to think about aging too much until I met my Girlfriend and my best friend (another good looking guy like me) who are both extremely good looking, Abercrombie & Fitch models (and also trying to get into Acting here in Los Angeles). And they're just health fanatics and so damn vain and they just demonize aging. I've found myself becomming more and more like them and I honestly fear aging to death too now. What can I possibly do? I'm so afraid of getting old. I feel like old is ugly and I don't ever want to be ugly.
Favourite Celebrities out of these?
Katie Perry, Justin Bieber, Katie Price, Amanda Holden, Peter Andre, Cheryl Cole, Orlando Bloom (so fit) James Cordon, Simon Cowell. Dec, Britney Spears, Miley Cyrus, Shenae Grimes, Drake, Olly Murs, Jason Orange, Mark Owen, Jennifer Aniston and Kim Karddashian! LOL that took ages xx :)
My abusive boyfriend is it really all his fault?
Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he has punched kicked slapped pulled hair choked me ect ect now I no I should leave or should have left already but I haven't, so please don't just answer by saying that. I left my husband who I have 3 children by and have had 2 more children with this boyfriend. My dad is a evil man who has mentally abused me untill I moved out at 16. He is breaking my mum and this is why I've started looking in to mental abuse. I now realise he has caused me to feel the way that I do as a adult. And possibly why I've allowed my relationship to carry on knowing it's wrong. My boyfriend has said some shocking things to me, and I didn't realise how much he was ******* my head up untill reading a page explaining the cycleof mental and physical abuse, and every little part was him, I come across as strong confident and the one that wears the trousers, I read the page to my bf and it wound him up, he said I was trying to turn it all on him. I'm not totally innocent. And I'm not a typical battered wife here. I do stand my ground, and if he hits me I will hit him I no it will only make him hit me again and harder but at the time I don't care. It stops when I'm to hurt to go back at him. Then he shouts at me how it's my fault and what do I expect if I hit him, I always answer back. You will never rule me or control me nor will I just sit here and allow u to hit me with out fighting back, so ur have to do it properly cos I will keep coming back at you. How stupid am I... So I thought maybe it is me. I won't shout or hit out at all see what happens. And it's happened twice more. The question I have tho is....... Why does he do it. Ok I read it's control. But still is he just evil. Does he really not feel bad? The sorry and passing the blame on me.? Is that not cos he can't deal with it. Everything u read tells u the abuser is just evil basically, and that they plan and fantasise what they do... maybe he does no what he's doin but can't stop??
What is it about religion and/or its followers that causes some people to turn violent?
Well today my dad decided to cut me several times because he thought he was being righteous about his religion, He said to me that jesus is the only true god and anyone that believes differently is a fool also he cared to mention that my religion was **** but he knows nothing about it tho
Is this healthy / normal? If not, what should I do?
You would be amazed how much 20 minutes of excersise would do to alleviate your depression. I know it sounds funny and unrelated but they are a lot of studies that have shown it to be more effective than drugs such as Prozac. It would probably also help your diabetes.
Islamic fanatics in the UK,British people answer please?
We should leave Afghanistan and let them sort out their own problems, it's not as if they are grateful for anything we do for them !
Curriculum Vitae help much needed!!!?
A CV is inappropriate for you. You need a simple resume listing in reverse chronological order, the jobs you had and what you did, your high school diploma, etc.
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